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Di titik ini gw bener-bener ngerasa butuh untuk mengeluarkan apa yang gw rasa dan pikir, sebagai terapi dalam mengelola energi dan melakukan diskusi diri atas apa yang terjadi. Daripada gw terus bergelut dengan pemikiran sendiri, lebih baik gw dokumentasikan juga semuanya dalam satu medium, sehingga bisa lebih terinci dan terdeskripsikan, selain bisa juga menjadi bahan gw refleksi nanti. Mungkin di tahun-tahun mendatang, saat gw sudah berubah, mengintip tulisan-tulisan lama di sini akan mengingatkan gw bagaimana pemikiran gw tumbuh dan apa yang selama ini gw pelajari. Yang mana itu juga bisa memberikan energi positif untuk gw, untuk mengapresiasi diri sendiri bahwa sejatinya gw sudah belajar sesuatu.

Adapun keputusan untuk membuat blog baru adalah karena blog gw yang lain, yaitu di hanirosidaini.wordpress.com sejauh ini lebih bersifat informatif dan tidak terlalu personal mendalam, sedangkan hanirosidaini.blogspot.com malah jadi banyak dipakai untuk endorsement. Di sini gw berharap gw bisa lebih terbuka, termasuk hal-hal yang sangat personal, yang banyak mengganggu gw dalam pemikiran dan perasaan. Semoga bisa bermanfaat dan betul-betul memberi efek therapeutic untuk gw pribadi.

Jakarta 2019,

di Jl.Bacang yang lagi adem cuacanya

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